And I got such a long way to go/To make it to the border of Mexico

My sister and the Nieces arrived mid-Friday afternoon at the apartment in the college town. The better-half had arrived the night before. Thankfully he happened to hit town as I was leaving class so he picked me up. I got massive blisters the night before walking to class. I was thrilled not to have to walk back to the bus stop Thursday night.

Anyway, we took a quick tour of the apartment and the Nieces and the better-half left us for about a half hour so they could go find a cave the better-half remembered from his undergraduate days. They found it but no one went in. I think it’s small or there was some doubt about losing two small girls down a hole, something. I don’t know. It was neato by all accounts.

Then we were commanded by Nut2 to get her to the park, STAT! The better-half and I found a playground not far from the apartment a month or so ago and mentioned it to the Nieces. It was the highlight of the trip, I think. The playground was pretty spectacular I have to admit. Several different zones of equipment and an actual caboose. Sweet. We actually went to the playground twice it was so much fun.

We toured the campus a bit and I showed them my School and we saw a bunch of kids playing ultimate frisbee. Then it was time to hit the t-shirt/sweat shirt shops. We tried the one nearby but it was a)packed to the gills and b)lame in child-size clothing. I knew of another spot for that sort of thing and off we went. We had success.

After shopping, Nut1 and I were waiting to get let back into my sister’s van. As we were standing there, I noticed a dirty diaper wrapped haphazardly in a piece of newspaper. We giggled like eight-year-olds (at least one of us has an excuse) and then had to tell our gross story in the car.

The car was the scene for quite a few gross things. Including–farting, burping the alphabet, taunting one Niece to throw up (alas she didn’t) and calling each other stinky or some variation on body part names.

All in all a good weekend. My sister managed to get the kids to the apartment, we did some fun things and then they hauled butt home (she said butt) in order to make it to a girl scout event late Saturday afternoon. And, after the event they went to see my brother-in-law perform with his band. She rocks. She’s also probably exhausted.

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She is not my friend in any sense of the word

The co-worker at work who quite often shows us her belly said to me as I was lugging my desk down and out of the building this afternoon that she liked a picture I posted on Facebook. First things first, she is not my friend on Facebook so she saw the picture because someone I am friends with commented on the picture. Which made me think I need to change my settings on Facebook again so that belly-showing freak stays the hell out of my business. Second things second, I muttered something unknowable (even I don’t remember) because I was a half hour late getting out of there and I was hauling three bags of desk out with me and I DO NOT LIKE HER. So, she’s not only oblivious to choosing professional attire, but she’s also thick as brick that my complete and total lack of socializing means I DO NOT LIKE HER AND COULD CARE LESS ABOUT HER OPINION.

Now, I usually forget to do twenty kinds of anything after driving to college town. It’s three hours every Tuesday night and I have a ton of This American Life on a thumb drive so I’m content listening to compelling content and not thinking about the belly-showing freak, generally. But, what was the second thing I did after ordering dinner? I changed my security settings on Facebook. Chances of her getting a clue? Still zero, but at least she won’t talk about what I’m doing on Facebook.

I am a Facebook prude. If I can’t imagine having lunch or dinner with someone, I don’t request to be their friend and I don’t approve their requests. As you can imagine, I have a very small number of friends on that site.

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The Boys

Right now all three boys in my life are sleeping in the bedroom. I took these two pictures earlier.

Simon in the sunshine, naturally:
simon in the sun
Jim had decided it’s fun to beat up the rug and then sleep on it:
jim has conqured the rug

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Oysters

WordPress. Why you vex me? Even if I’m signed into WordPress with my killer user name (really, it combines my moniker here and the world’s most important date 9/13/1999), often Blogspot kicks me to the curb when I try to comment on websites. It’s very annoying and I usually give up. So that’s how come I’m a lurker on the internet instead of a commenter.

This entry by Orangette describes, nearly perfectly, what it was like when I first tried oysters as a grown-up.

Back when we were dating, the better-half and I were in Chincoteague for a long weekend and were waiting for dinner. The place was semi-fancy or at least I thought so when I was a kid as we only went there on a rare occasion–because my parents were like that. It may or may not be fancy, but it is delicious and the sunsets are quite nice from the deck. Anyway, the wait for dinner was a long one. We were hungry and perhaps a little tipsy because we were drinking cocktails while we waited.

In addition to the cocktail drinking there was a discussion of what we wanted to eat. The better-half really wanted to order oysters and because I was in love, I agreed. Thank goodness for a couple of vodka tonics (and the love, of course). I had always thought of oysters as squishy, sort-of alive and yeck. As soon as we were seated, he ordered a dozen oysters. Let me tell you it was a revelation.

If you skipped the link to Orangette up there, please go read it. It was exactly like that–a cathedral bell going off. I love oysters here on the East Coast and we eat them often, but the best I’ve ever had were the ones we hoovered every chance we could get when we visited the Pacific Northwest a few years ago. One night while we were out that way, we went to a restaurant that wasn’t all that great. Pretty mediocre actually and the waitress spilled wine all over the better-half’s jacket, but we still talk about how good the oysters were that night.

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Because I’m mean

Since I’ve taken over the IT responsibilities for my organization, I’ve really seen a different side to the people I work with (not the blubber side of that one despicable co-worker, thank goodness). The kind of stupid side. I don’t mean they actually are stupid, but that they are rendered stupid when it comes to a bump in the technology road. I can see why the last IT person was so surly 90% of the time. Well, not really, but I’m trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Yesterday for the 560th time a, I’m not kidding when I say she’s become unhinged, co-worker asked me to come look at her computer. Something was wrong with her computer–ohmygodwe’reallgonnadiebecausemycomputerdoesn’twork. One of her monitors was displaying a message that there was no signal. I turned on her computer which sent a signal to the monitor. Damn, if she didn’t email me this morning and tell me it did it again last night when she turned off her computer. Because her computer was off and her monitor was on just like the day before. And, when I explained again how come it was happening she then asked me if it was because of the battery. It was a good thing she was 4 hours away from me this morning.

Another co-worker–the manager who wears purple velour exercise suits to work–bitched at me because she’s so busy that she can’t be bothered to update a couple of spreadsheets that the rest of us use to do her job. I reminded her gently, because she is the one who will bring a gun to work, that I know from busy and we can’t know the information that’s very lonely in her big empty skull so we have to rely on her spreadsheets. If they aren’t right we can’t do her job.

Then I found out that same velour-wearing moron gave out our brand-new password that she agreed she’d keep safe. The password didn’t even last a week. I had to request that another be assigned to the organization so that every Tom, Dick and Harry can’t take our information and pass it off as their own. I ratted her out to the director because by that time (oh around 10am) I had had it.

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On the couch

I had a presentation to deliver tonight and I think it went well. I had everyone in class traipse about the building looking for examples of wayfinding. Everyone seemed to enjoy it and now they know a bit more about a design principle that most of us take for granted. It’s fascinating, really.

My laptop crapped out in between shutting it off after work and hauling it to class. I hope the better-half can work his magic. Luckily all my work documents are on thumb drives (which need to be backed up on Monday), but there is quite a bit of this semester’s work on there that I’d hate to lose. My fingers are crossed.

I ordered a calzone for dinner tonight and I have to say I love having food delivered to my door. This is the 7th week of classes and only the second time I’ve had a delivery. Holy cow how nice it is to order something and 30 minutes later someone knocks on the door. It’s been at least 14 years since I lived anywhere near a delivery zone.

By all reports, the newest member of the household, Jim, did well at the vet. He’s now neutered and all of his shots are current. He’s really becoming a love bug and is only a wee bit skittish now. That behavior may not actually be skittishness, but kitteness.

We’ve been letting him explore the house a bit. Simon is not thrilled with that turn of events, but we’re not forcing anything other than breaking up the Simon-smackdowns. Who knew our little ‘fraidy-cat had so much aggression? I’m sure things will work out.

I think I mentioned awhile back that I’ve been catching up on Doctor Who. I finally saw the last episodes of David Tennant’s Doctor and I’ve watched a wee handful of Tom Baker’s turn. Thanks to Netflix for streaming the old shows. No thanks to AMC who abruptly stopped hosting The Prisoner. I was only half-way through.

I didn’t start watching Doctor Who until the reboot of the series and then it was sporadic. I do appreciate how well the universal storyline of the Doctor has stayed true even through the decades it’s been on the telly. The last two episodes of the David Tennant Doctor mentioned something I just learned about in a Tom Baker show.

The sets of the Tom Baker Doctor remind me very much of the Space 1999 sets–you know everything is on a sound stage. The actors are more like stage performers. The way television is now is so very different than it was in the 60s. Even with the campy, low budget feel of the current Doctor Who shows it’s obvious the budget is big. It’s a style choice to appear a little campy and low budget. The writing is still witty and well done.

Yeah, I’m late to the Doctor Who party, but I’m glad it’s still going on. I can’t help but think If I had a sonic screwdriver, I wouldn’t have to wait to see the better-half to fix the computer.

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A Little Ray of Sunshine

OK, so I know I’ve been quite whiny lately. Onward!

It is raining here in college town and it’s something like 55 degrees. I need to go buy some socks because I have only one pair of white ones here and that won’t cut it with the shoes I brought with me. I’m going to have to seriously look at the wardrobe this weekend and figure out what can live here and what should stay at home. I am trying really hard not to put on a sweater because when I go out later this evening, will I then need a coat because I’m so used to being snug in a sweater? Because there isn’t a coat here. Because I didn’t know it was going to be 55 degrees here when I packed on Monday. Seriously, we’re no better at predicting weather as far ahead as a couple of days?

I understand at home there’s a tropical depression unloading massive amounts of rain. Yesterday morning the weather guy said something along the lines of: “eh, we might get rain on Wednesday”…really? A tropical depression just whipped itself up?

Before this sounds like I’m whining about the weather I am very happy it is raining. It really hasn’t rained since late May/early June. I’m happy that it finally feels like fall. Now, why didn’t I buy some hot chocolate when I stopped at the store last night?

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Can’t decide

I am either suffering from:
malaise: a vague or unfocused feeling of mental uneasiness, lethargy, or discomfort
OR
ennui: a feeling of utter weariness and discontent resulting from satiety or lack of interest; boredom
OR
I’m just tired of people not living up to my expectations. People at work need to do their jobs. I need to be thanked occasionally for becoming the IT person and doing my other duties while babysitting otherwise intelligent adults who become blathering idiots when faced with a technology problem. I need to not have people ask me to come into their meeting to clear up a few things and then the primary questioner dismisses me. With an emphasis on dis.

Also, the backlight on my car radio went up in flames the other day. After doing some research, it’s a known flaw in the design of my car’s model year. The research also indicated that it’s often a pain in the butt to have the dealer fix it because even though it’s a known flaw not all dealers realize there’s a service ticket (or whatever it’s called) and so want to charge you up to $900 to fix it. My car is 7 years old and a factory radio should not cost $900.

Hello Crutchfield. A new radio should be arriving at the house today. It has a USB port and an input jack. And, even though I’ll be going from a 6 CD changer to one, I’ll have those two new inputs and the CD player will actually play CDs with MP3s and WMAs. What a concept. The ride to and from college town should be filled with more interesting listening now. Maybe that will help with the malaise/ennui.

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No Good Deed Goes Unpunished

Last winter when we had tons of snow we fed the black cat. It was cold. There was snow and we couldn’t let Blackie keep showing up with those imploring eyes and not feed her. Then there was Jim in the spring. We fed them both. We adopted Jim and started feeding him on the porch. Blackie went away for awhile. She came back and started eating close to the house. We busted her last Saturday sneaking on the porch to eat out of Jim’s bowl.

Then, the better-half emailed me that there’s a new kitten.

Last night at 1:51, the better-half sent this:

Simon is meowing downstairs; I go to the porch door and turn the porch lights on bright.
Jim in standing between the chairs and the door to the house. Blackie is standing between and behind the chairs, near the screen. New kitten is sitting on top of the pillow in my chair, as pretty as you please.
They all look at me standing in the doorway of the house.
No wonder Simon’s upset.

We’ll be figuring out to trap Blackie. I’m going to sound like Bob Barker, but Spay and Neuter your Pets, fortheloveofgod. I’m not sure what we’re going to do about the new kitten. We’re not going to be more than a 2 cat family. Anyone want a cat?

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Then There Were Four

Jim has officially joined our household. It’s not like we all didn’t know that was going to happen. He’s been living on the porch for the last couple of months. Last weekend when the better-half came to visit the college town, we left Jim with his very own feeder so he wouldn’t have to worry about his next meal.

The better-half took Jim to the vet for the first time today. He’s healthy and has had his first round of shots. He goes back in a month to finish his shots and to have “the boys” snipped.

We’ll have to figure out the whole move into the house thing at a later date. He’s quite content to live on the porch with access to the back yard so we’ll do that until it gets too cold.

Simon, I’m sure, is thrilled with this turn of events. He’s such a baby about conflict and the antics of the kitten. We had hoped that Simon would assert himself, but the better-half says he now thinks Jim is going to be the dominate cat.

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